What exactly do you offer?
As both a surrogate partner and a sexology consultant, I offer a psycho-educational framework designed to help people overcome psychosexual difficulties, performance anxiety, and somatic blocks. This is a phased, educational program that bridges the gap between talk therapy and real-world intimacy. While these sessions are experiential and may involve consensual hands-on somatic work, touch is utilised strictly as a clinical and diagnostic tool for nervous system regulation, emotional desensitisation, and boundary exploration.
Please read more about it here: “How can I help”.
Also, I offer sex profiling (as part of surrogate therapy, or as a separate online service): I will create your detailed profile based on clinical questionnaires and a verbal talk to understand your general sexual health, behaviour and lifestyle. READ MORE about it here.
Are you a psychologist?
No I am not. I do have general psychological knowledge, though; also I know the important principle of every therapy ‘do no harm’, hence I can refuse work with someone if I feel it won’t be right for them.
How do you ensure sessions are conducted safely and ethically?
My practice is guided by internationally recognised ethical principles, including:
informed and voluntary consent before every session and throughout the therapeutic process
- the client’s right to withdraw consent or discontinue sessions at any time without pressure;
- respect for privacy and confidentiality;
- careful consideration of potential benefits and risks before proceeding;
- respect for the client’s autonomy, dignity and personal boundaries;
Do surrogate partners usually work together with sex therapists?
Yes they do, but in my case I’ve chosen my own way- to play the role of both: a surrogate partner and a sex therapist. This is because of the relevant knowledge in sexology, counselling and mental health I’ve gained through my continuous CPD education. Also, this individual work allows me to be more private in this sensitive area and to protect the privacy of my clients. Therefore I offer strictly 1:1 sessions without involving third parties, unless is vitally important, but in such cases I would rather encourage you to have a separate therapist on your side, as an additional support.
Why should one choose you as a surrogate therapist instead of a casual sex worker (i.e. erotic masseuse or an escort)?
It’s always one’s personal choice, but I would say the main differences are:
1) With a simple sex worker, such as an escort or a masseuse, you can surely have intimacy and sexual interaction, but your issues won’t be resolved only just because of this. As your surrogate partner I would help you to be more confident in general and any form of intimacy may not happen between us on sessions. I do offer massage too – as a part of therapy, if it needs, though.
2) My understanding of sexology science, its importance and how it affects all human life, let me to be not only a compassionate person, but also to find the right treatment for different intimate issues, as well as the right words to explain the nature of things in delicate area.
3) People in the erotic/sex industry usually work with many clients without a personal approach, and they mostly do not have specific knowledge in sexology science. As a surrogate therapist, I prefer quality over quantity.
I’m carefully selective (that’s why the initial consultation is important) and do my best to help 🦋
Can I book your service right now for today/tomorrow?
No, sorry. First, I’m not available spontaneously; second, I require to book an initial Zoom consultation – to know more about your situation before proceeding with sessions. Hope you understand that this is important for us both.
In what areas in the UK do you offer your service?
Currently I cover Bristol-London area, but I don’t mind to consider other locations inside the UK – don’t hesitate to ask about it on our consultation.
Do you work only with men?
I am genuinely bisexual and comfortable working with adults of both genders— men and women, who might need my help.
What are the prices for surrogate sessions?
Please check here: Prices for online consulting and a surrogate session.
May I know where are you from/get your photos/ where do you live exactly?
Due to high privacy and discretion, I don’t reveal such details to strangers and won’t ask you personal questions either, unless you’d like to talk about it voluntarily. Good news that first we can see each other on Zoom consultation, though ⬇️🙃
or check 2 options of consultations: usual one or with a personal assessment
After booking a Zoom consultation please book a convenient time slot here
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