What exactly do you offer?

As both a surrogate partner and a sexology consultant, I offer a psycho-educational framework designed to help people overcome psychosexual difficulties, performance anxiety, and somatic blocks. This is a phased, educational program that bridges the gap between talk therapy and real-world intimacy.

While these sessions are experiential and may involve consensual hands-on somatic work, touch is utilised strictly as a clinical and diagnostic tool for nervous system regulation, emotional desensitisation, and boundary exploration.
Please read more about it here: “How can I help”.

Also, I offer sex profiling (as part of surrogate therapy, or as a separate online service): I will create your detailed profile based on clinical questionnaires and a verbal talk to understand your general sexual health, behaviour and lifestyle. READ MORE about it here.

Are you a psychologist?

No, I am not a clinical psychologist in its classic meaning, however, I do have general psychological knowledge and I studied sex psychology for a while as well. Also, I follow the important principle of every therapy ‘do no harm’, hence I can refuse work with someone if I feel it won’t be right for them.

What are your qualifications?

I have completed over three years of training in sex psychology, sexology counselling, mental health awareness, and Solution-Focused Brief Therapy, including a range of UK CPD-accredited courses. I am committed to continuous professional development and am currently studying for an International Diploma in Clinical Sexology.

Where do you work?

I can accept requests around Bristol—London area. Other locations are also possible, but it’s better to discuss it after an initial consultation.

How do you ensure sessions are conducted safely and ethically?

My practice is guided by internationally recognised ethical principles, including informed and voluntary consent before every session and throughout the therapeutic process; every client has a right to stop sessions at any moment without any obligations, and, what is also very important — potential benefits of a therapy should prevail potential risks.

Can I book your service now/today/tomorrow?
No, sorry. First, I’m not available spontaneously; second, I require to book an initial Zoom talk to let me understand your situation better and get to know us a bit more before proceeding with sessions.

Why should one turn to a surrogate partner instead of a standard sex worker or a sensual masseuse ?
It’s always one’s personal choice, but I would say the main differences are:
1) With a simple escort or masseuse, you can have intimacy, but your issues won’t be resolved just because of this.
2) Surrogate therapists are trained in sexology and/or mental health and have relevant knowledge, which is helpful to be not only compassionate but also it allows to approach an issue properly.
3) Standard sex workers usually work with many clients without a personal approach, and they mostly do not have specific knowledge in sexology science. As a surrogate therapist, I prefer quality over quantity. I’m selective (that’s why the initial consultation is important) and do my best to help.

It is a cost-of-life crisis now, but I really need your help. Do you offer discounts?
Yes, I do offer fair discounts for long-term sessions booked in advance. Although all questions regarding flexibility with payments would be better to ask me after an initial online talk and the first session. Please check my prices here. 

May I know where you are from?/see your pictures?/ where do you live exactly?
Due to privacy and discretion, I don’t reveal such details and won’t ask you personal questions either – unless you’d like to share it voluntarily. Good news that we can see each other on a Zoom video talk though 🙃